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Essay · Masculinity · 21 December 2025
The Math of Monsters: A Manifesto on the Men Who Break Women
The statistics say 1 in 3 women will experience sexual violence. Every woman knows a victim. Yet, if you ask 100 men, not one knows a rapist. This is the uncomfortable, violent math of our society.
Essay · Masculinity · 27 October 2025
Joseph, the Father I Never Thought I'd Be
I never imagined loving children who were not mine. Joseph’s quiet courage taught me that fatherhood is not lineage... it’s the decision to stay, protect and teach.
Essay · Masculinity · 14 August 2025
The Unspoken Rules of Surviving a Modern 'Man-Drought' in South Africa
I've noticed something, a subtle, yet pervasive shift. A kind of 'man-drought' has set in, not just in terms of numbers, but in terms of quality...
Essay · Masculinity · 24 May 2025
The Great South African Man-Drought: Are We Still Here, Or Just Taking Up Space?
Our townships are experiencing a bad dose of 'Leadership Vapour-Lock' among the brothers right now. It's as though someone has pushed the panic button on the self-actualization train.
Essay · Masculinity · 10 May 2025
Faithful, but Failing
You don’t cheat, congratulations. You kept your hands to yourself, but did you keep your heart open? You stayed, but did you show up? Love is not a courtroom where fidelity is your only defense.